There are few things that kill the "Oh man, it's happening, it's really happening, I'm definitely going to orgasm " feeling like the sudden urge to pee. You might plow forward, hoping your body doesn't get its signals crossed to the point where you actually let loose during climax. Or maybe you press pause, waddle to the bathroom, relieve yourself, then bound back in to bed feeling relaxed and ready to pick up where you left off. But why does this feeling happen in the first place? Well, it's the result of everything being packed so closely together down there—oftentimes a penis or sex toy coming into contact with the anterior wall of your vagina aka the top of it will accidentally stimulate your bladder.
Need to pee during sex? Here's why and how to fix it
Urinary incontinence during sexual intercourse: a common, but rarely volunteered, symptom
Peeing during sex is a very common concern. As many as 60 percent of women who have some level of general incontinence experience leakage during sex. Instead they may be experiencing female ejaculation during orgasm. Regarding female ejaculation, what the fluid actually does has been debated. During sexual activity, some women experience an expelling of fluid at orgasm. Some researchers claim only urine is expelled. This may also serve to moisten both the urethra and the tissue surrounding the vagina.
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It is possible for women to urinate during sex. During sex, pressure can be put on the bladder by the penis, fingers, or another object. As a result, prodding the bladder in some way during sex is a relatively common occurrence. There is also some debate about whether female ejaculation is urine or another sort of fluid.
The sudden need to pee while you're in the middle of having sex can be an awkward prospect. So, is it perfectly normal to need to pee at the worst possible time, or should you see a doctor? The urge to urinate during sex is actually a lot more common than you might think.