The sex has been wonderful, but she has a thing about wanting me to spank her. At first I laughed, as I thought it was quite an odd request. But it was clear she was serious, and this is where the problem lies. I have spanked her a few times and, though it arouses her, it makes me feel guilty. I feel bad for all sorts of reasons. I want us to be able to enjoy sex without anxiety, and would appreciate your views.
My girlfriend wants me to spank her if she breaks her diet. should i?
5 Reasons She Wants You To Spank Her - Maxim
Yes, lay down some rules that define how bad the diet was broken and agree on a penalty. Use the belt for minor infractions and the cane for bigger or repeat issues. Never mix sex and punishment spankings, make her wait if she breaks her diet. If spanking is a big turn on for her, you might want to come up with a reward system for keeping it too.